THE SAME FIGHTS. THE SAME DISTANCE. THE SAME EXHAUSTION.
WHAT IF YOUR MARRIAGE Problems AREN'T ACTUALLY ABOUT YOUR MARRIAGE?
You keep having the same argument. The same tension. The same feeling of being unheard. There's something underneath it all that no one's talking about—and once you see it, everything changes.
WHAT Conscious MARRIAGE
REALLY LOOKS LIKE
After 33 years, my husband and I both feel safe with each other.
We feel seen, heard, and cherished.
We went from 24 hours from filing divorce to complete security with each other.
A Conscious Marriage includes:
- Awareness of your triggers and curiosity about what they're teaching youÂ
- Taking radical responsibility for your part instead of defaulting to blameÂ
- Recognizing how childhood wounds shape how you love and connectÂ
- Creating safety within yourself so you can create safety with your partnerÂ
- Choosing connection daily instead of waiting for it to "just happen"Â
- Seeing your marriage as sacred container for growth and healing
The shift from unconscious to conscious is choosing love with awareness instead of defaulting to patterns..
MOST MARRIAGES ARE LIVED unconsciously.
Not because you don't love your partner, but because you've never been taught the real truth:
Your partner isn't here to make you happy.
Your partner is here to help heal you.
If love has always felt like walking on eggshells or waiting for the other shoe to drop, that's not love - that's trauma
THE Unconscious MARRIAGE REALITY
Most marriages run on inherited programming - patterns passed down through generations that we are unaware of:
- The same arguments replay because old programs are running the show
- Reactions come from ancient wounds that aren't even yours
- Survival patterns like over-functioning or people-pleasing feel like the only way to stay safe
- Connection feels elusive because you're both operating from outdated programming
- You keep trying to change circumstances instead of recognizing the deeper patterns
These aren’t character flaws or personal failures. They’re survival responses—patterns your body and mind learned to keep you safe in a world that felt unsafe, passed down through observed behaviors and societal programming.
It's not who you are - it's what you inherited.
Meet Your Guide:
I'm Deanna, a subconscious strategist and spiritual psychology coach.
For over 26 years, I've built successful businesses while raising a family. I understand what it's like to want to break through to your next level while feeling invisible patterns holding you back.
After my deep dive into spiritual psychology and subconscious reprogramming, I discovered the truth: Your external success is always limited by your internal programming.
I've guided hundreds of women entrepreneurs to identify their limiting beliefs, reprogram their subconscious patterns, and step into the version of themselves ready to receive six figures and beyond.
This isn't theory. This is my lived experience helping women just like you break free.
What You'll Experience Inside
4-Month Journey to Heal, Rewire & Reconnect - Starting With You
This program is for the woman who is ready to heal the stories that keep them triggered and settling for “I guess this is just the way marriage is supposed to be”.
YOUR COMPLETE
TRANSFORMATION AWAITS
From: Exhausted, unheard, trying everything with no lasting change
To: Empowered, authentic, using marriage as container for growth
You'll experience:
- Moving from unconscious patterns to conscious evolutionÂ
- Triggers becoming teachers instead of problems
- Taking your power back instead of feeling powerless to circumstancesÂ
- Feeling safe and more confident in all relationshipsÂ
- Living from divine power rather than inherited programmingÂ
- Tools for lifelong transformation when challenges arise
The Structure
Pre-Recorded
Modules
Deep insight, practical tools, and guided practices before each call.
Live Coaching with Deanna (2x/month)
1.5 hours of personalized support. I can identify your core limiting beliefs in minutes and show you exactly how they've been running your marriage.
Daily Integration
Tools
Breathwork, meditations, journaling to anchor the healing.
4 Month
Container
Intimate group designed for lasting transformation.
MY STORY:
FROM NEAR DIVORCE TOThriving
This is my lived experience, not just studied knowledge.
After my mom's death in 2016, I was splayed open. For the first time in years, my house was quiet and I could hear the noise in my head - all the stories I'd avoided.
I had one foot out of my marriage, constantly thinking about life without him.
But instead of trying to change my husband, I asked: What in me needs to change?
Every time I got triggered, I asked: What is this here to show me?
We went from 24 hours from divorce to feeling completely safe after 33 years.
This isn't theory. This is my real life.
"You don't have to become something. You don't have to do something to be a masterpiece you already are. Your job here is to chip away at those stories of lack and limitation that reveals the true masterpiece underneath."
— Deanna Herrin
THIS Program IS FOR YOU IF:
- You feel disconnected and want to bridge the gap
- Old patterns keep repeating despite trying everything
- You're tired of people-pleasing or over-functioning to keep peace
- You want to feel safe and confident in your body and marriage
- You're ready to stop making your partner responsible for your happiness
- You believe healing begins with YOU and you're ready to lead
The INVESTMENT
TOTAL VALUEÂ OVER $9000
TODAY’S INVESTMENT
You’re not just signing up for a program—you’re saying yes to a marriage built on understanding, safety, and emotional intimacy.
"She possesses a unique ability to see the best in people and shares valuable insights. Deanna's trainings have been transformative, bringing to light core wounds and providing practical tools for positive and long lasting change."Â
— Joyce
What if my husband won't do the work?
How is this different from counseling?
What if I've tried everything?
Are You Ready to Transform Your Marriage?
You hold the key to rewire it all. It's time to take your power back.
Peace is not found in their change. It's born in your release.
